Children don’t always have the words to explain what’s wrong. Worry may appear as a stomachache before school; frustration may turn into an outburst; sadness may look like withdrawal. As a parent, you want to understand what’s happening and how to help.
I’m Lisa Enneis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with more than 35 years of clinical experience. I provide child counseling in Newport Beach, helping families explore anxiety, child behavior problems, emotional challenges, school worries, and changes at home. My approach considers each child’s developmental needs and family circumstances.
Growing up involves learning to express feelings, handle disappointment, make friends, and adapt to new situations. Occasional difficulties are normal, but persistent changes deserve attention.
Child counseling helps families understand the experiences behind these patterns. The aim isn’t simply to stop a behavior; it’s to support emotional understanding and healthier responses.
School mornings, unfamiliar situations, or time away from caregivers can trigger intense worry. Counseling helps children recognize fears and practice age-appropriate coping skills.
Families can also explore my anxiety therapy services for related concerns.
Meltdowns, anger, defiance, and difficulty managing disappointment can disrupt home or classroom routines. We explore triggers, unmet needs, and ways to help children communicate frustration more constructively.
Peer conflict, shyness, exclusion, or difficulty sharing can affect a child’s confidence. Counseling supports emotional awareness, communication, boundaries, and problem-solving.
A child who avoids challenges, speaks negatively about themselves, or loses interest in activities may need additional emotional support. Therapy provides space to explore these feelings and recognize strengths.
Moving, parental separation, bereavement, or changes in caregiving can unsettle a child’s sense of security. Counseling helps children express their experiences and supports caregivers through transitions.
When relationships across the household need attention, learn about my family counseling services.
Challenges with focus, organization, transitions, or sensory experiences may affect school and home life. Understanding the child’s needs helps families identify appropriate support.
Explore my ADHD therapy and autism and sensory processing services for more information.
Consider reaching out when difficulties persist, intensify, or interfere with friendships, sleep, school attendance, or family life. The comparison below offers general guidance, not a diagnosis.
If your child is in immediate danger, call 911. For a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988.
I begin by learning about your child’s strengths, developmental stage, family relationships, school experiences, and current concerns. Children express themselves in different ways, so communication and therapeutic activities should fit their age and individual needs.
Together, we explore emotional triggers, build practical coping and communication skills, and identify ways caregivers can support progress at home. I discuss appropriate parent involvement and confidentiality expectations as part of the treatment process.
We discuss your concerns, developmental background, and relevant school or family experiences.
I get to know your child’s interests, strengths, and communication needs.
We identify meaningful changes to work toward at home, at school, or with peers.
We revisit goals and adjust support based on your child’s needs.
Help your child identify worry, anger, sadness, and excitement.
Consistency can make transitions feel more manageable.
Ask what happened and what your child was feeling.
Notice attempts to ask for help, try again, or solve a problem.
Show how to handle frustration and disagreements respectfully.
Parent involvement varies with the child’s age, clinical needs, consent, and legal requirements. I explain how privacy and communication will work before treatment begins.
Child therapy emphasizes developmentally appropriate emotional expression, everyday routines, school adjustment, and caregiver guidance. Teen counseling typically places more emphasis on independence, identity, peer relationships, and privacy. Keeping these services distinct helps families find support suited to their child’s stage of development.
For older adolescents, visit my Adolescent Therapy in Newport Beach page.
Choosing a therapist for your child involves trust. I’m Lisa Enneis, a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with more than 35 years of clinical experience supporting individuals and families. I consider each child’s strengths, emotional needs, and relationships rather than applying the same plan to every family.
35+ years of clinical experience with emotional, behavioral, and relationship concerns.
California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, License #30245.
Counseling shaped around developmental needs and family circumstances.
Appropriate caregiver involvement to support understanding and consistency.
Seek guidance when distress or behavior changes last, become more intense, or interfere with daily life. You do not need to wait for a crisis.
The appropriate age range depends on the services and the child’s needs. Please contact me to confirm whether I currently work with your child’s age group.
Caregiver participation is often important, especially for younger children. The format depends on treatment goals, consent, confidentiality, and clinical needs.
Yes, counseling can address school-related worries and coping skills. Learning, attention, bullying, or other concerns may also require additional support.
There is no fixed number of sessions. We review goals and progress as treatment continues.
You can contact me to discuss your child’s concerns, age, and appointment availability.
I see families at 1151 Dove Street, Suite 105, Newport Beach, CA 92660. Serving families in Newport Beach, Costa Mesa, and Irvine, with telehealth options available where clinically and legally appropriate. Please confirm current availability and eligibility when scheduling.
You don’t need to have every answer before asking for help. Whether you’re concerned about anxiety, emotional outbursts, friendships, or changes at home, we can begin by understanding your child’s needs and discussing appropriate next steps.